You see that tall black gate with shiny gold trimmings? The one with uniformed security men and a beautiful sign that says, "Welcome to Paradise Estate"? We've all driven past it. Some of us even dream about it while stuck in traffic on Lekki-Epe Expressway. The idea of living in a gated estate in Lekki feels like soft life, serene streets, no danfo noise, steady light, clean drainage… But is it...